Your children are a reflection of your marriage
What parents do with their lives in the area of how they treat each other in their marriage can also have a positive or a negative effect upon the lives of their children.
Proverbs 22:6 declares: Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.
Malachi 2:14-15 says;… because the Lord has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously;
yet she is your companion and your wife by covenant.
But did He not make them one, having a remnant of the spirit? And why one? Because He seeks a godly offspring…
God uses a holy marriage and relationship between a woman and a man as a spiritual channel that relates the emotions, feelings, hormones and desires of the children to the moral standards that governs the lifestyle of their parents.
When a man and a woman gets married, they enter into a covenant bond towards each other that binds them for the rest of their lives as long as they live in this earth,
but according to the moral standards of the world system, marriage is just something that people do to entertain their selfish pleasures, and as long as it is lining up with their personal interests, then its worth keeping,
but the moment their marriage begins to be challenged that is when an calculated decisions of divorce, unfaithfulness, and adultery begins to overpower the commitments of their relationship.
The world never teaches people that the good moral standards of the children are passed down or imparted from the atmosphere of a loving, committed, and dedicated husband and wife that are doing every thing they can so that they may keep their marriage holy, intimate, pleasing, loving and affectionate towards each other.
Malachi 2:16 says: For the Lord God of Israel says that He hates divorce, for it covers one’s garment with violence, As you can see the word violence means; hatred, bad behaviors, terrorist, immoral act, covetousness, conflicts, wars, and all these negative human behaviors are inhabited into ones nature through the act of breaking the cord that connects a husband and wife in marriage.
When a man chooses to become unfaithful towards his wife, that act of unfaithfulness is called sexual immorality, which means that by so doing, this will transact the nature of immorality (behavior of bad manners) into the children of that man who committed sexual immorality,
because when a married couple finds themselves in a place of disagreement or argument, the most important thing is to avoid and resist the worldly way of doing things, where sex is used as an entertainment that gives pleasure to people who have problems in their marriage,
but rather; let the disagreement become the catalyst that will motivate you into finding your weaker spots that needs changing so that you may make you marriage more intimate and better.
By Apostle A. Ngabo