Delegating authority
Do not look at your children in your family as your own children, but look at them as leaders who are going through a process of character transformation so that they may benefit the vision of God’s business.
When you spoil a child by giving them what they want all the time, by allowing them to get away with their manipulative and controlling nature which makes them to cry, lie, cheat, speak evil words, use deceptive shemes so that they may skip doing what they have been commanded,
such a child who grows up in such an environment will always end in problems that he or she can not overcome or solve, make wrong choices, and also use life and money as a means of selfish gain.
A mother who does not discipline, instruct and rebuke his children when they do wrong things is a mother who has permitted and given a legal right to the evil events which happens in her community to become the training ground of his children.
Teach and instruct your children into the right path of life, so that as they go through the different stages of life they may not become victims towards the evil behaviors that are destroying our communities.
The rebuke and the instructions which disciplines a child will become the good manners and behaviors that will sustain, guide, protect and preserve his/her life when he grows up.
By: Apostle A. Ngabo.