First of all you who wants to get married , you must be in God’s perfect will for your life, because when you are in God’s perfect will for your life (being fully obedient and faithfully to God’s spiritual covering  and word in your life),

this will enable you to patiently wait for God to give you the desire to get married, instead of you yourself making up your own lustful, self-constructed desire about the person that you want to get married to.

The desire of why you want to get married must be from God, because it is God that must give it to you.

Genesis 2:18; says that God had a desire in within Himself that it is not good for you to be alone.

This means that there is a season in your life when you are alone and then it comes to pass when God says that it is not good for you to be alone any longer.

Genesis 2:18 says……I will make him an helper , from that time onwards, the desire that was in God also becomes your own desire.

You start to long after, you start to desire, you start to have visions, you start to relate spiritually to this person even before you physically meet that person.

And if you have met that person before, there are spiritual things or commandments that God has used to spiritually prosper your life that will be in spiritual agreement with this persons life.

Meaning that the things that strengthens your spiritual relationship with God, in some way or another will also relate to this persons life.

Another tip that I would like to give you about God’s desire for you (the one that He has chosen for you) he or she will always honor, respect and consider the godly decisions that you take and make concerning the different situations that occur between you and him.

By: Apostle A Ngabo