Who is the right spouse for me?
The right spouse for you is not scared of God’s presence in your life. This is the person that God created for you, to be your marriage partner even before you came into existence on earth. He or she will always appreciate your spiritual beauty.
How do I find out the right man or woman that God wants me to marry?
The right partner for you is someone that God has chosen for you even before the earth came in being, so he or she is God’s choice for your life and not your own.
Like I said before, that your spiritual soul mate must line up with your godly principles that governs your life.
There must be spiritual principles and a spiritual a covering that God has used to prosper and govern your life, so that when it comes to the time of taking one of your greatest decision in your life, like choosing your spouse, this will enable you spiritually to chose right .
In fact all the choices that you made; when you decided to tithe in an environment around you that was saying; it’s foolishness to give away and honour God with your tithes.
When you decided to honour, submit and listen to your spiritual covering, when all the people around you were saying that they are false teachers .
When you chose to do the spiritual things, that honours God, so that you may grow up spiritually,
All these choices that you made concerning your spiritual life, contributes to that final decision that you are about to make. Because every time you obeyed God, your obedience also spiritually related and connected you to your soul mate (spouse).
Through your obedience to God’s will over your life, that same act of obedience also draws your spouse closer, and closer to you spiritually until the day when you get married comes into your life.
And in another case, some people could be in a marriage, but when their relationship together is really not glorifying God, even though they were created to be together.
In such cases, God always separates those two until each one of them learns how to honour Him by putting their spiritual life in order,
So that when He brings them back together again , by that time they should have learnt by experience that; it is their obedience, and their spiritual relationship with God that makes their physical marriage on earth to work,
that’s if there is physical, and mental abuse between these two (God separates them for a while, and then He joins them together when they are spiritually ready).
So your spouse that God created for you is someone that relates to you spiritually. This must be a person that is in agreement with your spiritual relationship with God,
so that you marriage and love for each other may be built on the foundation of your spiritual beauty and not the other way around.
The right spouse for you is not scared or jealous of God’s vision and love in your life, this same person will always support your spiritual decisions,
but the one that is not your soul mate will always get nervous, jealous, and argumentative when ever it comes to the decisions that you make when you try to involve God in your life or relationship with him or her.
By: Apostle Ngabo